Comments on Maybe If You Just Relax: Nosy Neighbor: the Sequel!

Now see, I would have just said.. "I'm infertile"....

2008-05-31T18:32:00.000-04:00

Now see, I would have just said.. "I'm infertile". That usually shuts people up really, really quick.

When I first read this last night, I wanted to com...

2008-05-31T11:50:00.000-04:00

When I first read this last night, I wanted to come over and kick your neighbor's a*s.

I'm re-reading it the following morning and . . . yep, I still have the same urge. I have on my big clog sandals with the chunky heel, which I think would be great for stomping on him! Ya cool with that?!

ugh.
fun play-by-play, though!

Hope you...

2008-05-31T09:01:00.000-04:00

ugh.
fun play-by-play, though!

Hope you get a great fertilization report!

heh heh heh ... you said penises ... :-)

Ok...

2008-05-30T23:59:00.000-04:00

heh heh heh ... you said penises ... :-)

Okay, yes. Lame reference to Beavis & Butthead, which is who your damn nosy neighbor must have channeled.

I so hate that people feel like they need to put their two f*cking cents in as to when we should have kids. As if.... As in, as if we haven't been frickin' trying!!

You're a much better person than I am. I probably would

wow - what a moron! people say the dumbest things ...

2008-05-30T17:25:00.000-04:00

wow - what a moron! people say the dumbest things don't they?

I am just getting caught up, but I hope ER went we...

2008-05-30T15:20:00.000-04:00

I am just getting caught up, but I hope ER went well!!!! Hope you are feeling better! GL!!!!

Via NaCOmLeavMo...
That neighbor sounds like on...

2008-05-30T13:40:00.000-04:00

Via NaCOmLeavMo...
That neighbor sounds like one pain in the ass. Unfortunately there are some people in life who seemed to miss out on the picking up on other peoples feelings... They're the one's I practise my, kill a pupil dead in 10 seconds if they don't stop that right now, glare. seems to do the trick... they soon seem to work out that they are better leaving me alone!

I think maybe these insensitive morons can subcons...

2008-05-30T11:31:00.000-04:00

I think maybe these insensitive morons can subconsciously "smell out" people undergoing infertility treatment. From my experience if you're really not trying and don't know you're infertile nobody seems to give a hoot when they ask if you have kids and you say "Not yet." But once you know it's not that easy they just pry and pry and pry and pry... It's like they know but they don't know that

NaComLeavMo

The term has a Y at the end of ...

2008-05-30T08:46:00.000-04:00

NaComLeavMo

The term has a Y at the end of it in Ireland so it is DINKY (Dual Income, No Kids YET!)

I hope your ER went well yesterday. Will check back in to see how things are going.

Good luck with your transfer!

Your explan...

2008-05-30T03:03:00.000-04:00

Good luck with your transfer!

Your explanation of DINK made me laugh so hard, I spit out my gum!! I suppose it is better than choking on it, but now I have the problem of trying to find it . . .

HAHA! I love your blog. GOOD LUCK with the trigger...

2008-05-29T21:27:00.000-04:00

HAHA! I love your blog. GOOD LUCK with the triggering, etc. I hope you get good and knocked up so you can bring over your triplets to see Mr. Asswipe and tell him you took his advice and decided to get more than a dog, all because of him. What a douche.

Yikes, that guy needs to get a clue. Want me to g...

2008-05-29T19:56:00.000-04:00

Yikes, that guy needs to get a clue. Want me to go kick him in his dink for you?
Oh, and if you're a dink... I guess that makes me a nink?? Or a dink who spends more on the nk's than I get from the di's.

People are so damned stupid. I just skip the nicet...

2008-05-29T18:48:00.000-04:00

People are so damned stupid. I just skip the niceties. I figure that if you are asking personal questions you better be damn prepared for a personal answer. My conversations go like this
Idiot "Are you going to have anymore kids?"
Me "Well it depends on my ovaries. After several injections and INTERNAL ultrasound we didn't have any success. Do you know what an INTERNAL ultrasound is?

I hope that your retrieval went well!

I'v...

2008-05-29T18:44:00.000-04:00

I hope that your retrieval went well!

I've never heard the term dink and would shoot someone if they ever said it to me because I am for sure not swimming in dough. I am pretty good about straight up tellin people when they ask...."well, we've been trying for about 8 years, so I'll let you know when it happens, thanks."

Could that be why I don't have many second

ok first things first, good luck with your retriev...

2008-05-29T17:45:00.000-04:00

ok first things first, good luck with your retrieval!
Secondly, I feel you on the welling up with tears, I just finished venting about going to a preschool graduation tomorrow...I hope I can make it through the whole thing with out boo hooing all over the freakin place.

My neighbor next door is equally as "special" as yours, She asked when we were going to have kids during our

Oh, I just LOVE NaComLeavMo, coz I've just found s...

2008-05-29T17:23:00.000-04:00

Oh, I just LOVE NaComLeavMo, coz I've just found such a fabulous blog! Erm... yours, that is, realised I hadn't quite made that clear. (Notwithstanding the fact that it would be breathakingly insensitive to bust unceremoniously into someone's comments and announce that someone ELSE over the virtual way is shit-hot, these type of people evidently do exist. And it appears that they live by you. I'm

I detest the term DINK!! (Probably because everyon...

2008-05-29T16:47:00.000-04:00

I detest the term DINK!! (Probably because everyone assumes you're rolling in money -- and you would be, if you didn't have to fork over 90% of your paycheck to the RE for the millionth time).

Know what else I detest? Nosy weirdos whom you've barely met, but who have no problem asking about the most intimate parts of your life. I've never been brave enough to actually zing them with

Ooooohhhh, I hope the retrieval went well.

2008-05-29T16:24:00.000-04:00
Ooooohhhh, I hope the retrieval went well.

Good luck and keep us posted!

this guy's wiener is totally a Vienna sausage by n...

2008-05-29T15:43:00.000-04:00

this guy's wiener is totally a Vienna sausage by now because my plaid boots just dinked his dinkie too.

sending you some wicked good mojo for a great ER today.
xo

I just kicked him in the wiener for you. Telepathi...

2008-05-29T14:06:00.000-04:00

I just kicked him in the wiener for you. Telepathically. It felt really, really good.

I've never heard the term DINK before. I'll never ...

2008-05-29T12:21:00.000-04:00

I've never heard the term DINK before. I'll never understand why EVERYTHING needs to have a name. ugh. Your comment about kicking him in the weiner nearly made me fall off my stool. hilarious.

Some people are completely clueless. Kudos to you...

2008-05-29T12:09:00.000-04:00

Some people are completely clueless. Kudos to you for not kicking him in the dink. I have never done it, but when cornered with that conversation I've always wanted to tell them, "...I am not allowed to have children as a condition of my parole.." It would be fun to see what someone would say. Bet they'd never call you over to see their baby again!

Some people really are clueless. Kudos to you for...

2008-05-29T12:02:00.000-04:00

Some people really are clueless. Kudos to you for not giving it to him in the dink. I've never had he guts to say it, but when cornered with that line of conversation I've always wanted to say.."well I am not allowed to have children as a condition of my parole.." Always wondered what they would say. Bet they wouldn't call you over anymore to look at their baby!

It will never stop, as soon as you have one peopl...

2008-05-29T11:48:00.000-04:00

It will never stop, as soon as you have one people start asking when the next one will come along, hello people just had a baby and do you know how hard it is to GET that ONE! It makes you want the shake people.

Oh and your neighbor just can not catch a clue, you did not want him around.

Good Luck with ER

Hey Jen!

I've slowly been reading all of yo...

2008-05-29T10:41:00.000-04:00

Hey Jen!

I've slowly been reading all of your blogs and I have to say they are amazing! You've always been hilarious. :)

I didn't know you were going through so much, and I'm praying for you. Also, I've probably been one of those people who've said, "At least you can have fun trying!" and didn't realize that the comment was really annoying! Sorry about that.

Oh,