tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post789272411227216178..comments2011-10-30T21:12:04.213-04:00Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03844806977351587056noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-43221108706154749592011-10-14T18:27:56.857-04:002011-10-14T18:27:56.857-04:00

I know all of these feelings all to well. I just had my first (and only, due to cost!) cycle of IVF and it didn&#39;t work. I was heart-broken. And just like you, I knew...I just knew it didn&#39;t work. Odd, huh? <br />So glad I found your blog...It&#39;s nice to read other people&#39;s stories and not feel so alone about the entire process.<br />A

Andreahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15986758289102417220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-13497723410479644962009-12-06T08:38:43.753-05:002009-12-06T08:38:43.753-05:00

Thank you SO much for the laugh!!! I really needed it this morning and I was laughing my ass off out loud as I read your entire entry. I am so sorry for your heartache but I love you for being so real about it. <br />Thanks again, you made my day!<br />*still giggling*<br />Jamie

Jamie Touchettenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-42337854115307882432008-04-16T10:02:00.000-04:002008-04-16T10:02:00.000-04:00

I'm sorry hon :( You're allowed to be angry and upset, it is completely natural. Get it all out to clear your mind. (((HUGS)))

Bechttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02475383139764141252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-90749783771785940852008-04-16T08:34:00.000-04:002008-04-16T08:34:00.000-04:00

I'm SO sorry. You have a complete right to be mad, angry, furious, whatever. We feel for you!<BR/><BR/>ps Love Mimi too!!! Vision of Love is the greatest song ever. If anyone could pull you out of a horrid BFN slump, it's Mimi!

Lorriehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13957154962886838385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-87871444332945012202008-04-16T08:21:00.000-04:002008-04-16T08:21:00.000-04:00

Jen, I'm so sorry for the pain you feel. I wish there was something profound I could say, but just know that you are not alone. Cry if you feel like it--forget what anyone else thinks. This will get easier over time, but for now lots of hugs to you, sweetie!

Jillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11934296773153860236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-11049432309750862192008-04-16T01:43:00.000-04:002008-04-16T01:43:00.000-04:00

Yes, it really does suck!!!<BR/><BR/>I am so sorry to read about the pain that you're going through.

sarah23http://www.blogger.com/profile/05898197158558142894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-48384514382885685972008-04-15T21:00:00.000-04:002008-04-15T21:00:00.000-04:00

I'm so sorry Jen.

Mombihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16687618395919000451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-23644629929595597972008-04-15T20:33:00.000-04:002008-04-15T20:33:00.000-04:00

I'm so sorry, Jen :( :(

Danahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12425049790258923162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-50214675649666765282008-04-15T19:48:00.000-04:002008-04-15T19:48:00.000-04:00

Jesus, Jen, who knew you had so many readers? I'm in awe.<BR/><BR/>Post again soon and let me know how you're doing. I keep checking in.

the Babychaser:http://www.blogger.com/profile/12205229469287159556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-46908004383070777472008-04-15T19:40:00.000-04:002008-04-15T19:40:00.000-04:00

Jen, the emotional trauma of a BFN, after all the hard work and money, is so crushing. So unfair. I wish there were something to say to make it better, but I've been there too and I know it's something you just have to survive through on your own. I'm so sorry.

Ahuva Batyahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17432567017520114856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-1584250611730975152008-04-15T18:36:00.000-04:002008-04-15T18:36:00.000-04:00

Jen - I'm so sorry you didn't get the news you were hoping for. It DOES suck. All the feelings you are having - anger, resentment, etc. - are totally normal. Wish I could take them away for you and give you a big hug.

Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-39989632201612620152008-04-15T18:34:00.000-04:002008-04-15T18:34:00.000-04:00

My heart goes out to you Jen.

Annegirrlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14906154435189691638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-76969124295287068692008-04-15T17:54:00.000-04:002008-04-15T17:54:00.000-04:00

It sucks and it's not fair...and I'm sorry. So very sorry

Eggiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02319956245630733368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-57393272602872519352008-04-15T17:46:00.000-04:002008-04-15T17:46:00.000-04:00

I am sooooo sorry! :o(

Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13170261829015682637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-26202178043303024782008-04-15T16:57:00.000-04:002008-04-15T16:57:00.000-04:00

Jen - there are no words for how much this sucks. There are swear words running through my head that would make a sailor proud, but they aren't fit to post in a blog. <BR/><BR/>I am so sorry. I'm here for you if you need anything :-(

JenMnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-55406571973751636252008-04-15T16:21:00.000-04:002008-04-15T16:21:00.000-04:00

I'm so so sorry... :-( My hubby and I have been TTC since Sept 2004 and are just about to start IUIs (I know - what took us so long? Long story...). Not that this will make you feel better (or it might) but I was feeling especially sorry for myself today when I found your blog for the first time, and read EVERY POST. I was laughing out loud at work through most of it. So just wanted you to

Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-25865388791904296902008-04-15T13:26:00.000-04:002008-04-15T13:26:00.000-04:00

Aww ... Jen, I can't tell you anything more that everyone above me has already said. Just know that you are not alone and dang-nabbit! Screw the rest of the world and let them see you cry. Because those tears are justified. And because I'm a damn ugly crier, too. Hugs to you, sweetie!

Emilyhttp://apronstringsemily.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-13820762006759995702008-04-15T12:57:00.000-04:002008-04-15T12:57:00.000-04:00

Jen...at this point it's all been said right? The right thing, the wrong thing...been there, heard that. <BR/><BR/>I am very sorry for you...and for all of us! Hearing stories of cycles that actually WORK give us all hope and when we read about a BFN, it starts to shrink that hope.<BR/><BR/>S. and I are a few weeks behind you and your comment about this being it and being afraid of never having a

Misty Riverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12794458387267207253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-1056184368836293642008-04-15T12:24:00.000-04:002008-04-15T12:24:00.000-04:00

I'm sorry Jen, it's really not fair at all. If anyone gives you a$$vice, you send 'em my way and I'll "take care of them." <BR/><BR/>On a side note, Mimi is my vice as well...especially old-school mimi...kinda makes me feel like a summer day when I had not a care in the world...<BR/><BR/>Sending ((hugs)) to you.

Dreamer4agifthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01484007558206947938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-1764188158970577132008-04-15T11:02:00.000-04:002008-04-15T11:02:00.000-04:00

I'm sorry, Jen. The fallout from a BFN is the worst.

Waitinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02772905759431761116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-75026512677448129952008-04-15T10:49:00.001-04:002008-04-15T10:49:00.001-04:00

Oh, honey, I'm so sorry! Are you sure you can tell this soon? (If so, why are they making me wait until Saturday for my beta?) When is your beta? I thought it wasn't until this Friday! Seriously, don't stop taking your drugs until you're certain.<BR/><BR/>I don't know if this helps--I'm not sure where you are financially or whether you have any coverge for IVF or whether you're in

the Babychaser:http://www.blogger.com/profile/12205229469287159556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-72688201368526763892008-04-15T10:49:00.000-04:002008-04-15T10:49:00.000-04:00

Seriously. Two healthy 30-and-under women with good embryos both get BFNs after having retrievals on the same day? J thinks it might be a conspiracy.

Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04643481889216349403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-4166273904949588592008-04-15T10:47:00.000-04:002008-04-15T10:47:00.000-04:00

I am so, so sorry. I want so badly to cry for you. Please know that there are SO many of us out here thinking of you and sending virtual hugs through cyberspace.

Jillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01887360369268725280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-1741604947536862222008-04-15T10:32:00.000-04:002008-04-15T10:32:00.000-04:00

Oh Jen, I'm so sorry.

Mrs. Higrenshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05716402229360715867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012874364178693867.post-34131394040920707742008-04-15T10:21:00.000-04:002008-04-15T10:21:00.000-04:00

this sucks. what else can i say? my heart is hurting for you...

andreahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10548514864368948179noreply@blogger.com